Married with kids can be a marriage wrecker. Jan knows it doesn’t have to be that way.  Using her marriage and family knowledge and skills, she developed the pathway for new parents to stay together while parenting their kiddos and keeping their marriage relationship strong. She practiced this (with Chip) within their own marriage and family of 4 kids. The D of divorce was squashed. Their marriage and family turned into one filled with the A’s of appreciation and adoration. This gave us more time for playing at the beach or in the mountains! Being connected, communicating well and resolving confusion and conflicts is doable and even enjoyable while moving from family craziness to family calmness using wise Decisions, Noticing communication spaces and Applying skills well for the ages of their kids.