Spicy Relationship Summit
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Spicy Relationship Summit
Created 2 months 1 week ago
Host: Mark Allen
Spicy Relationship Summit
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Family & Parenting Mindset Other
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Timezone: Eastern Time (US and Canada)

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Registration ends: Mon, Aug 11, 2025 8:00 PM (1 week 5 days from now)

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SPEAK AT THE SPICY RELATIONSHIP SUMMIT

Helping Couples Transform Great Relationships into Extraordinary Adventures

August 4–11, 2025 | Application Deadline: July 17, 2025
 

Are you passionate about guiding committed couples beyond conventional boundaries into deeper realms of intimacy and connection?
 

 

The Spicy Relationship Summit is seeking pioneers, practitioners, and visionaries who understand that the strongest relationships deserve the most exciting journeys.

This pre-recorded, on-demand event serves curious, open-minded couples ages 35–65 who already have solid foundations but are ready to explore non-monogamy, tantra, BDSM, and other pathways to heightened connection.


💫 WHO WE’RE SEEKING:

We’re looking for authentic guides who walk their talk. The ideal speaker embodies both professional expertise and personal experience in:

📌 Advanced Relationship Skills: Skills such as rupture/repair, relationship agreements and hard conversations

📌 Emotional Intelligence Mastery: Understanding and responding to your partner's emotional needs in ways that strengthen your bond

📌 Intimacy & Connection Secrets: Practical techniques for maintaining and deepening physical and emotional intimacy over years together

📌 Relationship Adventure Planning: How to keep the spark alive with shared experiences and explorations that excite you both

📌 Sacred Sexuality & Embodiment: Approaches like tantra and conscious intimacy that transform your physical connection

📌  Advanced Explorations: For couples ready to explore further—ethical non-monogamy, power dynamics, and other relationship structures

And so much more…

Your approach should honor that these couples aren’t “fixing” anything — they’re elevating what’s already beautiful. You offer clear navigation tools for couples to discover which paths feel right for their unique relationship.


🎙️ THE IDEAL SPEAKER:

📌 Speaks from both professional expertise AND personal experience

📌 Communicates about sensitive topics with clarity, respect, and authenticity

📌 Balances vulnerability with practical, actionable guidance

📌 Understands the specific needs of established couples exploring together

📌 Offers non-judgmental perspectives that empower couples to make informed choices


✨ WHAT TO EXPECT:

📌 Convenient Pre-Recorded Format - Share your wisdom on your schedule

📌 Global Reach - Connect with curious, committed couples worldwide

📌 Expand Your Impact - Grow your visibility among your ideal audience

📌 Affiliate Opportunity - Optional commission structure for VIP pass sales

📌 Community of Innovators - Join fellow relationship pioneers making a real difference


🌟 SHARE YOUR WISDOM:

What transformative insights could you offer couples who are ready to venture beyond conventional relationship boundaries together?



APPLY NOW TO SPEAK!

Application Deadline: July 17, 2025

Because extraordinary relationships deserve extraordinary guides.
 

Speakers
Open Up Without Breaking Up
Ally Iseman Founder, Passport 2 Pleasure

Statistically, most people are actually already in a non-monogamous relationship, it's just a matter of whether or not it's consensual! Whether you want to open up your relationship to include other people, or you just want to open up more authentically to each other, this workshop will help you open up without breaking up!

  • Learn the importance of owning your curiosities and desires through tough conversations.
  • Reveal hidden “Compound Meanings” that could be quietly destroying your relationship, for example: do you know for sure if you and your partner have the same definition of cheating?
  • Explore how jealousy isn't something to be avoided, but rather can be a powerful tool for more trust and deeper intimacy.
  • Discover how your sexual/physical needs and your emotional/romantic needs determine your Relationship Design, and what to do about it.
  • Uncover the importance of both novelty AND security in longterm love and learn how to build a relationship that supports both.

Consensual non-monogamy is really just relationship exposure therapy and learning the principles that make it thrive will only strengthen your relationship, even if you're monogamous!

Education Health & Well-being
Relationship Love +2
Whole Again: Healing Intimacy After Breast Cancer
Amy Rowan Clinical Sexologist

This compassionate, empowering session is for women navigating intimacy after breast cancer, surgery, and the emotional toll of treatment. Amy Rowan, Clinical Sexologist and breast cancer survivor, offers tools to reconnect with your body, rebuild trust in touch, and rediscover your sensual self — even when everything feels different. Whether you're partnered or solo, you'll leave with a renewed sense of hope, healing, and permission to reclaim pleasure on your terms.

Health & Well-being
Intimacy Breast Cancer
Opening Safely: Nervous System Tools for Conscious Non-Monogamy
Aria Diana Somatic Relationship Coach

Threesomes? Group play? Many couples dip their toes into non-monogamy through shared sexual experiences—but even the sexiest adventures can stir up unexpected feelings. Nervous system dysregulation is one of the biggest reasons open relationships go sideways. In this juicy Q&A, somatic relationship coach Aria Diana will share best practices for staying grounded while expanding your love life. Learn how to work with jealousy, manage emotional triggers, and stretch your capacity for intimacy without losing connection to yourself or your partner(s). Whether you’re new to play or well into your polyamorous path, you’ll leave with practical tools and body-based insights to help you co-create secure, spicy, and conscious non-monogamy.

Nonmonogamy Polyamory +1
How conscious kink spices up your relationship
Ariane and Beatriz BliXX Conscious Kink Facilitators
  • what is consciou kink 
  • how this can be used to grow as individuals and as a couple 
  • the impacts on building long, healthy relationships 
Intimacy and connection secrets long-term relationships
Azure Grayot Certified Sexologist & Intamacy Coach

Long-term love doesn’t have to mean passion fades.  Board Certified Sexologist Azure Grayot, The Luv Diva, reveals the most sought-after secrets for sustaining intimacy, desire, and emotional closeness in committed relationships. You’ll learn from someone in a 28-year relationship how to break out of routine, rekindle erotic energy, and create meaningful moments of connection—even with demanding careers, kids, or decades of history.

Discover tools to navigate desire discrepancies, reignite touch and communication, and bring playfulness back into the bedroom. Whether you’re navigating a dry spell or simply want to elevate an already good relationship, this seminar delivers high-impact insights you can start using right away.

Designed for discerning individuals and couples who value both passion and personal growth, this experience is more than a talk—it’s an invitation to transform your love life.

Let’s make intimacy a powerful, lasting part of your success story.

Business Education +3
TBA
Charlie Henderson Intimacy + Empowerment Coach

Charlie is a zealous human being whose passions lie in human connection, pleasure, and somatic system-based healing. Their mission in life is to help Women, Non-Binary, Queer, and Trans individuals embody their intuition and pleasure to better connect with themselves and build the life they desire. Their teachings seamlessly integrate their dance, Tantra, Yoga, and meditation background, incorporating insights from Western neuroscience, psychology, and trauma healing to offer a comprehensive and holistic approach.

Relationship Success Code
Claire Afua Jorgensen Relationship Rescue Coach

Relationship Success Code™ is a transformational masterclass for people in loving, stable relationships who know there's more. More intimacy. More passion. More emotional depth.

This isn’t about fixing what’s broken—it’s about reigniting what’s beautiful. Inside this experience, you’ll discover proven, faith-anchored and neuroscience-informed tools to elevate your connection, turn up the heat, and bring fresh energy into your relationship.

Through practical strategies and heart-centered reflection, you’ll learn how to communicate your desires confidently, create space for play and pleasure, and nurture a relationship that feels exciting, safe, and deeply satisfying.

Whether you've been together 5 or 25 years, this is your chance to stop settling for "fine" and start experiencing the fullness of love, intimacy, and joy God designed for your relationship.

Get ready to fall in love—again and again—with your partner… and with yourself.

From Boardroom to Bedroom: What 20 Years as a Domme Taught About Intimacy
Deborah Kat Ms.

What if the secret to better sex isn’t spontaneity—but structure?

In this provocative class, Deborah shares lessons from two decades as a professional Dominatrix—and how those same tools can transform your romantic life, whether you’re kinky, vanilla, or somewhere in between.

You’ll learn:

  • Why adding structure to intimacy creates more freedom—not less

  • The truth about “spontaneity,” and why your best dates were secretly planned

  • How giving each other permission to be awkward unlocks deeper pleasure

This class is for couples ready to go deeper—into trust, turn-on, and each other. You’ll walk away with practical tools for clear communication, sexy boundaries, and shared play that makes intimacy feel safer and hotter.

Structure isn’t the enemy of passion—it’s the invitation.
Come discover how conscious design makes room for erotic magic.


 


 

Health & Well-being
Love Sexuality +2
Tantric Confidence: Beyond Performance in the Bedroom
Dominique D’Vita Tantric Confidence: Beyond Performance

Feel like you’re going through the motions in the bedroom—or just trying to get it right? You’re not alone. In this spicy, soulful session, Tantra expert Dominique D’Vita shares how to ditch performance pressure and create real intimacy through presence, confidence, and energy.

✨ What if slowing down was actually the sexiest thing you could do?

✨ What if your breath and awareness—not technique—were the secret to deeper pleasure?

Whether you’re looking to reignite your spark or feel more confident in your body, you’ll walk away with simple Tantric tools to reconnect with your partner—and yourself—in the most delicious way.

How to Become Trigger-Proof within a Relationship
Dr. Nima Rahmany Attachment Specialist

Discover the 3 most important skills to master if you want to bring flow and harmony into your relationship

Orgasmic Potential – Your Body & Life Beyond Climax
Dragonfly Lee Somatic Sexologist, Sexological Bodywork

Orgasm Re-Imagined invites couples to expand their understanding of orgasm beyond the peak moment of climax. Through a somatic and nervous system–based approach, this explores orgasm as a full-body experience, one rooted in safety, sensation, presence, and connection.

Many couples find themselves caught in patterns of goal-oriented sex, where pressure to perform overrides genuine intimacy. This presentation—and the practices within it—offer a new path forward: one that honors the slow unfolding, emotional honesty, and co-created pleasure through specific tools like breath, mindful movement, and intentional touch. Partners can deepen their awareness of each other's erotic pathways and release limiting beliefs about what sex "should" look like.

Whether you're reconnecting after finding yourself with an empty nest or simply seeking more depth, Orgasm Re-Imagined supports couples in creating an intimate foundation where pleasure is both a shared language and a healing force.

Health & Well-being Mindset
Love Body Awareness +3
The Yes-AND Marriage
Eri Kardos Founder and Lead Coach of Relearn Love

How to Hold More Than One Truth (and Lover)

This is Liberation: How to get the Sex you Desire and the Love you Deserve Without Stress, Shame, and Self-Sacrifice
Eva Blake Sex, Love, & Leadership Coach

What if the key to your most connected sex and fulfilling relationships wasn’t more effort — but deeper truth? In this transformative conversation, Eva Blake unpacks what it really means to lead your love life from liberation, not performance. We’ll explore how to access and amplify your body’s wisdom, speak your desire instead of swallowing your words, and dismantle the systems — patriarchy, white supremacy, purity culture — that have taught you to shrink, perform, or disconnect. Whether you’re partnered or solo, healing or thriving, this talk invites you back into your body as the compass and your pleasure as the path.

The STARS Talk: A Framework for Conscious Communication in Relationships
Evelin Dacker Dr

Deepen your connection, enhance your intimacy, and learn how to talk about the things that matter most. In this playful and practical workshop, Dr. Evelin Dacker—physician, sex educator, and creator of The STARS Talk—guides couples through a powerful framework for open, shame-free conversations about sex, needs, desires, and boundaries. Whether you're new to these kinds of talks or looking to fine-tune your communication, STARS helps you move from awkward to attuned. Expect real tools, real talk, and a safe space to explore the vulnerable places where deeper intimacy lives. Because extraordinary relationships don’t just happen—they’re built through courageous connection.

Unlocking Intimacy: Moving Through Relationship Power Struggles
Heather Jones Unlocking Intimacy in Power Struggles

In "The Five Stages of Relationship," Heather draws from her extensive experience facilitating relationship dynamics to reveal the predictable journey all meaningful connections must navigate. From the intoxicating Romance stage through the challenging Power Struggle phase, to the deeper intimacy of Co-Creation, this presentation offers a roadmap for anyone seeking to build authentic, lasting connections.

This isn't just theory—it's a lived understanding gained from years of witnessing how people break through their deepest relationship barriers. Heather's approach helps participants recognize where they are in their relationships and provides practical tools for moving through the inevitable challenges that arise when two people dare to truly see each other.

Whether you're struggling with romantic partnerships, family dynamics, friendships, or professional relationships, this session will shift how you understand conflict and intimacy forever.

Get Out Of Your Sex Rut: Rediscovering Your Authentic Sexual Spark
Heather Shannon Certified Sex Therapist & Intimacy Coach

Stuck in predictable patterns while curious about kink, tantra, or non-monogamy? Many couples feel trapped between boring routine and exciting possibilities they’re afraid to explore.

Certified sex therapist Heather Shannon reveals the five common patterns that keep couples sexually stuck and shows how to break free authentically. Whether you’re dealing with mismatched libidos, performance pressure, or simply wondering if there’s more to discover beyond vanilla monogamy, this session helps you identify your unique pathway to passion.

Learn to navigate desire differences without shame, reconnect with your authentic sexual self, and create safe space for exploration - whether that’s BDSM, ethical non-monogamy, tantric practices, or combinations that feel right for you both.

Perfect for couples ready to move beyond conventional expectations and discover what truly ignites sustainable desire. You’ll leave with concrete tools to transform your relationship from sexually stuck to authentically thriving, whatever that looks like for you.

Sexuality Know Yourself +4
The Four Foundations of SELF-ish Sex, Love, And Romance
Heather aka Nookie SELF-ish Relationships Author & Mentor

I’m selfish AF—and it’s the best thing that ever happened to my relationships.

In this class, I’ll show you why being SELF-ish (not self-centered, not self-sacrificing) is the secret sauce to getting absolutely loved and getting laid in the very best ways.

We’ll cover the Four Foundations of SELF-ish Relationships:
💥 Get Bangable
💖 Get Lovable
🎯 Get Likable
🔄 Get Sustainable

When these are aligned, love gets easy, sex gets better, and connection stops feeling like a damn chore.

You’ll learn how each foundation works, what happens when they fall out of sync, and how to start building relationships that actually fit you.

If you’ve ever felt used, overlooked, or like you’re doing all the emotional labor—this class is your permission slip to be your bold, brilliant SELF and still get every kind of love you want.

Education Health & Well-being
Relationship Love +8
7 Habits of Long-term Couples Who Have Extraordinary Sex
Irene Fehr Couples Sex & Intimacy Coach

Extraordinary sex is not something that just happens to the chosen few. Nor is being an extraordinary lover something that one is born with. Both are learned and created through daily habits that allow sexual passion and desire to thrive — no matter your age or how long you’ve been married. Learn the seven habits of long-term monogamous couples who experience extraordinary sex that gets better and better over time — and what you need to create it in your relationship. 

BDSM: Your Erotic Playground
Julia Satterlee Certified Sexologist, Coach, & Educator

BDSM can be your liberating invitation to treat your sexuality as an erotic playground, not a chore or routine. Whether you’re drawn to sensory play, role play, or power dynamics, exploring these practices can offer a space to feel, express, and experiment with desires that everyday life rarely allows — consciously and consensually.  In this talk, we’ll bust some myths and reframe BDSM as an adult arena for creative, playful, and deeply fulfilling erotic exploration. You're invited to write your own permission slip for erotic exploration outside of the "norm"- without the shame.  

Optimal Vitality & Confidence Lead to Better Relationships
Julz Vitality Confidence Mentor

It starts with YOU. Your relationships are a mirror.

Let's dive into authentic confidence, limiting beliefs and how self-sabotage kills joy in life and relationships.

Understanding how your values relate to that of another, haveing difficult conversations, and maintaining healthy boundaries - make relationships rewarding.

Business Marketing +1
Lead Generation Social Media +1
Be An Extraordinary Lover Because Couples Are An Endangered Species
Laurie Handlers Sex and Happiness Coach
Discover why modern couples are failing at unprecedented rates and the proven method for creating extraordinary love. Learn about the three Rs that destroy relationships, the science behind why familiarity breeds contempt, and a revolutionary approach to "relating" versus being "in a relationship." This conversation offers both hope and practical tools for anyone wanting to move from ordinary to extraordinary love, including how to navigate the decision of whether to transform or gracefully separate.
Orgasmic Fire Breath - a practice to enhance your sexual energies.
Lisa A. Rizzoli Sacred Sexuality Mentor & Guide

Orgasmic Fire Breath is a powerful breath that moves, expands and elevates energy into conscious awareness. It cleanses and releases toxins while awakening and energizing the body and mind. This powerful breath practice changes your mood as you activate your sexual energies.

The more you practice this breath, the more natural it becomes and can then be used while engaged in sexual activities to heighten sensations and orgasmic potential. When both partners utilize this technique it becomes exponentially more powerful.

All you need is a yoga mat on a hard surface, willingness and an open mind to explore the possibilities.

Education
Tantra
The Intimacy You Crave Lives on the Other Side of One Brave Conversation
Mark Allen Relationship Coach

Follow one man’s surprising journey from “I could never ask that” to “I can’t imagine not asking it.” Mark Allen takes you behind the scenes of his own marriage—the fears, the fumbles, and the one terrifying conversation that changed everything.

What began as a solid-but-safe relationship became something far more adventurous, intimate, and deeply honest—once he found the courage to voice the desire he thought might ruin everything.

In this warm, down-to-earth talk, you’ll hear how Mark and his wife built radical trust, turned discomfort into discovery, and found new layers of connection they didn’t even know were possible. Expect real talk and a few good laughs about the awkward beauty of being human together.

Health & Well-being
Relationships Open Relationships
The Art of Flirtation: Keeping Passion Alive in Long-Term Love
Nadège Sex Scholar, founder of Pleasure Science

What if flirtation wasn’t just for the beginning of a relationship—but the spark that keeps it vibrant, connected, and full of playful passion for years to come?

In this energizing masterclass, Nadège—sex scholar, bestselling author, and founder of Pleasure Science—shows couples how to use flirtation as a living, ongoing practice. Whether you're in a season of reconnection or simply want to turn up the heat, you'll get practical tools, mindset shifts, and playful prompts to help you feel more desired and more desiring.

You’ll discover why flirtation fades—and how to bring it back with ease. Learn how to flirt in ways that feel true to you (even if “sexy talk” isn’t your thing) and how tiny, daily moments of connection can spark big waves of intimacy and excitement.

Perfect for couples ready to fall in love with each other—again and again.

Tantra for Modern Day Lovers: Transforming Sexual Energy into Full-Body Bliss
Olga Ribble Intimacy Coach and Tantra Teacher

Join us for an enlightening session with Olga Ribble, a renowned Tantra Educator and Intimacy Coach, as she delves into the transformative power of Tantra. In this captivating interview, Olga and her partner Bob will explore how ancient Tantric practices can be seamlessly integrated into modern relationships to enhance intimacy and connection. Olga will share practical insights and techniques to help you cultivate deeper self-awareness, embrace authentic intimacy, and experience full-body bliss. Whether you're looking to reignite the spark in your relationship or embark on a journey of personal growth, this session promises to provide valuable tools and inspiration for lovers seeking to elevate their connection to new heights. Don't miss this opportunity to transform your love life with the wisdom of Tantra!

Sex Up Your Space: Turning Your Bedroom into a Sanctuary of Seduction
Rachel Maine Sex Therapist

Your environment can be one of your biggest turn-ons — or turn-offs. In this juicy session, Rachel Maine, LMSW and sex coach, will guide you through how to intentionally design your space to invite more sensuality, connection, and pleasure. Learn how simple shifts in lighting, texture, scent, and energy can help you feel more at home in your body and more connected to your partner. Whether you're single, partnered, or somewhere in between, you'll walk away with creative, accessible ideas to transform any room into a sensual sanctuary — no renovation required. 🖤

Stop Fighting Forever: The Proven Formula for a Thriving Relationship
Railey Molinario Founder of RI (Relationship Intelligence

Discover the 3-step Relationship Intelligence™ method that transforms conflict into connection and reignites intimacy, even after years together. In this transformative session, award-winning relationship expert and Founder of Relationship Intelligence™, Railey Molinario, shares her proven formula for building thriving relationships rooted in alignment, clarity, and joy. You’ll learn how to stop repeating the same arguments, shift from reaction to intention, and finally feel heard, understood, and deeply connected. Whether you’re navigating differing desires, emotional disconnection, or communication breakdowns, you’ll walk away with practical tools to repair ruptures, align your vision, and fall in Love all over again. Based on real results from thousands of couples around the world, this 3-step method is the key to unlocking a relationship that’s peaceful, passionate, and built to last. Because the best Love stories are the ones we consciously create, together.

Erotic Blueprints! Discover The 5 Intimacy Languages For Your Best Sex & Love Life Now & Ongoing, By Design!
Sacha Fossa Erotic, Intimate & Wellness Arts Sexpert

Single and craving more satisfaction? Partnered and feeling bored and wanting more magic? And/or, hot and seeking even greater in your sex, love, and overall life?  Discovering how you and others are wired erotically through these blueprints can create the deep connection, fuel the passion, and provide the sexual satisfaction you have been longing for. Gain the awareness in how to uncover your unique wiring as a lover, how to comprehend and expand into others, and how thus move into more erotic mastery.

The Erotic Blueprint™ system offers a unique map to arousal, and this knowledge will take your sexual satisfaction to the next level, and beyond.

These blueprints hold the keys to deciphering ones gifts, needs, desires, turn ons, turn offs, superpowers, and challenges. If you are familiar with (Gary Chapman’s) 5 Love Languages, these are essentially the 5 Sex Languages developed by renowned sexologist, Jaiya. 

Education Health & Well-being
Empowerment Intimacy +3
Power Play as a pathway for deeper intimacy and connection
Sarah Butcher Integrative Kink Therapist

Power Play - the exploration of Dominant and Submissive roles within BDSM is something that has a lot of misconceptions and misunderstandings. We hear the term BDSM and assume that it is all about pain and degradation - but in actual fact, that couldn't be further from the truth. 

In this session, Sarah will talk through the concept of "conscious kink" and what it means to truly explore power dynamics in a relationship. From getting started to myth busting, Sarah will shed light on how you can spice up your relationship and sex life, by taking some tips from the BDSM world - whether you consider yourself super kinky or simply curious, this presentation will shed light on the ways you can experiment with power play as a pathway to deeper intimacy and connection.

 

Education Therapy
Kink
The art of deeper conversations and emotional intelligence
Stephanie Sigler Dr.

Discover how emotional intelligence (EI) can transform your alternative relationship in our workshop, "Deep Conversations and Emotional Intelligence." Learn strategies to enhance self-awareness, empathy, and communication to navigate complex dynamics with ease. Through practical exercises and engaging discussions, gain tools to foster harmony and deeper connections. Perfect for couples seeking to strengthen bonds and resolve conflicts constructively.

Education
Relationships Communication
What's On Your Sex Life Bucket List?
Susan Bratton Intimacy Expert To Millions💋

Couples that play together, stay together… Especially in the bedroom. Join me for a hilarious quiz where I rank erotic playdate ideas in real-time with Susan.

"Ever wondered what your real bedroom bucket list looks like? We're playing 'The A, B, C's,' and the answers are gonna be revealing." 

5 Surefire Ways For Couples To Have More Pleasure
Trina Read Sexologist

You want and deserve a deep, soul-quenching, mind-blowing sex life. Unfortunately, what you've only ever experienced is basic sex. That changes right here, right now.

1) What Are You Doing To Make Sex Enjoyable?
When I ask couples what they do to make sex enjoyable, their response is usually absolutely nothing! 

(2) Women Love Sex … But …
The average woman has a healthy and robust sexual desire, arousal & libido. So if it's not her, then what could it be? 

(3) Why Do You Have Sex?  
Do you have sex because it makes you feel good, and you want to? Or because your partner wants it? 

(4) You Are In Charge Of Your Sexual Happiness
Your sexual choices & mindset are behind the wheel driving your sexual experience. 

(5) Focus On What You Want 
With a tiny bit of thought & planning, you, your partner, and your sexual experience can completely open up.